Should Canadian girls date Middle Eastern guys?

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There are a lot of Middle Eastern students in Halifax. In that culture, they do not date for the most part like Canadians do. However, there are some young men who would like to have a Canadian girlfriend. Canadian girls often like Canadian guys, probably because there is no language barrier. And let’s admit it, there is a certain amount of racism in Halifax. However, there are some very good reasons why Canadian girls should date guys from the Middle East. One is that they usually come from strong families, and a good boy listens to his father and mother. Of course, sometimes a Middle Eastern parent wants their student who is visiting Canada to go home and marry a Middle Eastern girl. But for those who do not mind, I think more Canadians should date Persians, Arabs, etc. Another reason is that Middle Eastern men respect women more, especially the younger generation that we are talking about here. They do things that protect women. They do not go out and get drunk every weekend. I know of many situations where a young guy in Halifax will travel to Vancouver, for example, to help his sister fly back home to Saudi Arabia. It is the rare Canadian who is that protective of his sister, although I know there are some. Another good reason for Canadian girls to date Middle Eastern guys is that they usually have access to money. A girl does not have to be a gold digger in order to want her partner to have enough money to take care of their needs. I get depressed if I see a girl with a baby and a stroller on the bus, because I think if you have a baby, you should be driving the baby around in a car. It’s so much more comfortable. One person should never be attracted to another person because of the size of their bank account, but we would be lying to ourselves if we said it is not a factor in relationships. Also, there is nothing wrong with a man deciding whom he wants to be with based on looks. It is just biology. Middle Eastern guys also have a much better sense of humour than Canadian guys. They like to socialize, friendship means a lot to them, and they like playing games (the good kind, not the bad kind!), and they are more friendly than a lot of people give them credit for. Imagine if you were in their country, lonely, homesick, and needing a hug. I also think guys from different cultures should hang out together and learn from each more, too, because there are cool things about Canadian guys that Middle Easterners could learn from. But that’s the subject of another blog! The bottom line is that I think everyone would benefit if Canadian girls gave Middle Eastern guys a chance. 

 

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  1. Trent the man Hess

    If you really think middle eastern men respect women more than Canadian men, you are nuts, blind, need to get out more out all of the above.

    • Kyle

      lmao so true

  2. Queen of POPcorn

    I agree with the above.
    And also, just because someone has a baby on a bus doesn’t mean that they can’t afford a vehicle. Perhaps they prefer public transportation for environmental reasons or driving around the city is too much of a hassle. For someone who is trying to discuss the idea of racism and stereotypes throughout your blog, your post makes you seem very close-minded. You’ve made some pretty bold generalizations as well.

  3. Abdullah

    well, i am from Middle East and im also Muslims i know lot of thing about Canadian guys and girls ,but i kind of agree that we want chance , not we need , cuz we know how to deal with a women in back home in any place in this world . About the above hey if u had bad thing with guy from Middle East that does not mean we bad , and we have sweet things in our life more and more what u have guys here as family and friend . my best friend has canadian girlfriend , he is really love her i mean it , and the planing to get married even tho they have different religion and culture . but they love each author , ill tell u something about guys from middle east if they love someone they mean it , if they hate someone they mean it . And we all human so , and if someone has girlfriend form anywhere in the world they should deal with her as queen , (( queen )), last thing we don’t want hugs , we do not feel homesick , just we need respect or we make u here or anyplace in the world to respect us . thank u

  4. Janice

    This is a load of crap! I am a white woman and know alot about iranian men as I was with one for 11 years He was amazing and we were soul mates (he was not persian)…….but this is rare. Most middle eastern men never intend to marry a white woman but the odd ones do fall in love. As for every canadian guy is an alcoholic that is not true. There are many who never drink! As for middle eastern men treat their women better that is also not true– every race has good and bad men….Alot of these men just want sex from white women and pretent to fall in love to get some many things not to mention free sex, money, a job, ……..but as stated above there are alot who would not do that also but overall- its pretty rare that a middle eastern man will marry a white woman so to all u white women out there be very careful!!!!Also the white guy u will know straight up if they just want sex (u may even find out the first night!) but with these m. eastern men they wont bring it up a nd will wine and dine u for months and spend money until they get the sex then they will disappear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • user

      cant be more agree Janice..
      yes lots of persian guys are handsome generously spending money BUT its not permanent ..

      im persian & I hate these persian liars who pretend love to get laid ..
      white ladies never believe middle Easterners’ love ,they just want to experience lots of different girls to feel powerful ! they act like u r the one ,,but eventually u will be regretful
      I’d love to date a white man even though ive heard I should share they restaurant bills and so on ..but at least i think they are themselves without any sweet mask

  5. Eli

    Interesting post.. sounds like your intentions are good, but there are some major generalizations here! You shouldn’t assume that all men from the Middle East are the same – that is just silly…

    • admin

      I’m often accused of making generalisations but I only have a brief space to make my points. Of course, not all men from the Middle East are the same. If you read enough of my posts, you will see that I often show that there are two sides to every story. But in a short blog entry, I have to cover things quickly and am only interested in making a particular, essential point.

  6. Ali

    It is a fact that there are both good and bad guys from any region, but that Middle Eastern men are deeper (mentality, behavior) than other men is also a fact. We have a very deep and warm culture full of traditions, which make us how we are. Other men can not compete with Middle Eastern men in certain fields, which are the fields that cause women to never forget the experience with Middle Eastern men (if they sadly would brake up, that is). Now, there are Middle Eastern men who are too dominant, too this, too that, which cause negative experiences for women. Most of us are not like that. So, if you are interested in Middle Eastern men, consider dating them when they ask you out; no problem, you will not regret it. We ask you out because we find you attractive and wish to know you better to see if a relationship will work out, not because we desperately want sex. But, like I said, most of us, like me, date people from our own kind; culture is very important to us.

  7. Max

    Simply this post possess the truth about what is going on in reality which is true and whoever is against that is either a racist or ignorant

  8. Pip

    Question:
    Was Islam’s “perfect man” sexually restrained?

    Summary Answer:
    Muhammad had sex with just about anyone he pleased, thanks to Allah’s extraordinary interest in his personal sex life, as immortalized in the Qur’an.
    Although the Qur’an didn’t have the space for addressing topics like universal love and brotherhood (which Muslims sometimes insist are there, but aren’t), the list of sexual partners that Muhammad was entitled to is detailed more than once, sometimes in categories and sometimes in reference to specific persons (Zaynab & Mary).

    Muhammad was married to thirteen women, including eleven at one time. He relegated them to either consecutive days or (according to some accounts) all in one night. He married a 9-year-old girl and even his adopted son’s wife. On top of that, Muhammad had a multitude of slave girls and concubines with whom he had sex – sometimes on the very days in which they had watched their husbands and fathers die at the hands of his army.
    So, by any realistic measure, the creator of the world’s most sexually restrictive religion was also one of the most sexually indulgent characters in history.

    ALLAH & 6 YEAR OLD BRIDES

    Like Muhammad, Muslims are looking for a 6 year old child to marry. They will “thigh” with her until she is fully mature, when she is 9; then they will have full sexual intercourse with her. She might squeal like a pig while their large penis repeatedly enters her small vagina. But Allah wills it, so it got to be OK.

    O yeah, thighing is where they put their penis between her thighs & masturbate until they cum and then shoot their “load” all over the place:

    AISHA WASHING SEMEN FROM MUHAMMED’S CLOTHES

    From the Hadith of Bukhari:

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 229:

    Narrated ‘Aisha:

    I used to wash the traces of Janaba (semen) from the clothes of the Prophet and he used to go for prayers while traces of water were still on it (water spots were still visible).

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 231:

    Narrated Sulaiman bin Yasar:

    I asked ‘Aisha about the clothes soiled with semen. She replied, “I used to wash it off the clothes of Allah’s Apostle and he would go for the prayer while water spots were still visible. ”

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 232:

    Narrated ‘Amr bin Maimun:

    I heard Sulaiman bin Yasar talking about the clothes soiled with semen. He said that ‘Aisha had said, “I used to wash it off the clothes of Allah’s Apostle and he would go for the prayers while water spots were still visible on them.

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 233:

    Narrated ‘Aisha:

    I used to wash the semen off the clothes of the Prophet and even then I used to notice one or more spots on them.

    From the Hadith of Bukhari:

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 229:

    Narrated ‘Aisha:

    I used to wash the traces of Janaba (semen) from the clothes of the Prophet and he used to go for prayers while traces of water were still on it (water spots were still visible).

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 230:

    Narrated ‘Aisha:

    as above (229).

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 231:

    Narrated Sulaiman bin Yasar:

    I asked ‘Aisha about the clothes soiled with semen. She replied, “I used to wash it off the clothes of Allah’s Apostle and he would go for the prayer while water spots were still visible. ”

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 232:

    Narrated ‘Amr bin Maimun:

    I heard Sulaiman bin Yasar talking about the clothes soiled with semen. He said that ‘Aisha had said, “I used to wash it off the clothes of Allah’s Apostle and he would go for the prayers while water spots were still visible on them.

    Volume 1, Book 4, Number 233:

    Narrated ‘Aisha:

    I used to wash the semen off the clothes of the Prophet and even then I used to notice one or more spots on them.

    • admin

      I appreciate your taking the time to post this, but I don’t think it’s all true, is it? The Muslims I know do not dream of getting young girls; they want adult women. And I know quite a few Muslims. Also, the little girl that Muhammad married turned out to be one of the great Islamic scholars, right? I think Aisha was her name, but I might be wrong. I’d be very interested in hearing from any Muslims who know more about he subject.

  9. Ahmad

    First let’s start with Muhammad’s wives, there are many Hadith and different ones that say he might have married even eighteen girls but not together even in AlBuckari which is not considered the main book to go back to for every Muslim in the world. Yes I see it is wrong to have that big number of wives, but there is also so many reasons for that, if it was true that Muhammad just had sex with every girl he pleased then how would you explain that he married Khadijah who was 40 years old and 15 years older than him. Muhammad was only doing what Allah ordered him to benefit the Islam first of all. then this number is because of teaching the responsibilities of wives and duties since they have period and prayers and fasting and so many other things.

    I have to say that AlBukhri or any other books talk about Hadith is not all correct what ever Muslim say there is only the Quran that is all true and it is the source of determining any thing in Islam I do not care what these books say about Muhammad because there is no reason to believe in these books, there are a few Hadith that are correct I can not deny this!!

    Aisha, yes she is Muhammad’s wife and If you have read more about Islam you would not talk about her, just because Muslims are not yet all agree that she was a good wife or whatever. What I want to say is we muslims do not agree that she was trying to help Islam but totally the opposite, and these Hadith you copied do not agree with Quran so we do not give them any importance.

    About Islam and Brotherhood, first the word Islam means in Arabic is peace and there is a clear.

    [Hujurat 49:10] The Muslims are brothers to each other, therefore make peace between your two brothers and fear Allah, so that you may gain mercy. (The entire Muslim nation is a single brotherhood, without any distinction for caste, creed or colour.)

    I hope I have cleared some points.

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